No matter how many people are clapping for you and supporting you, no matter how many people are against you planning to destroy you, it starts with you, completely choosing people who support you , clapping for you, one day by you they will get hurt even if it is unintentional and maybe because your mind tells you that they will never leave. Choosing people who are against you, planning to destroy you, but keeps a genuine smile when they meet you will eventually leave you empty-handed in the end, you won't be able to trust someone because the most trusted people betrayed you. The advice i will give as a friend not writer or therapist is that please keep people on the status, which they have showed you. Keep a balance in both your loved ones and your enemies, nor your enemies knows you and so your loved ones. Everyone has flaws and your family supports you love you so that you don't have to get to know your full potential not because it will benefit them or harm them, it's for example a mother will protect her childrens at any cost, even if their kids were to fall they will catch them up. They never let kids create any harmful situations for themselves and know life. But remember as you're reading this, i am neither your mother and nor i will tell you that life is beautiful or easier and any body can come and will save you and will become your hero or will protect you at any cost, you have to become strong to make easy steps for a dream life you want. Be your own hero, no body will come to give you a life that you can give to yourself. Trust me. Your parents are protecting you but you should be aware of it and don't create generational fears of knowing disasters for your childrens, your parents loves you but they are keeping you in darkness that incase if they die the world will become very cruel, they don't tell you how relatives turn into trials when parents die. It's a sad reality everyone would like to skip and not know because since childhood they are kept in a bubble life, they get scared when they realize that life is a lot different when you see it with your perspective instead of parents perspective. It scares but it doesn't scare people who have faced so much and patiently showed gratitude and accepted fate, likes to face confrontation no matter how hard it is, they are always prepared for whatever life has in store for them. Life is not kind but some people just like to become bestfriend of themselves, they create perfect definition of self love, they don't lie to themselves.

In the end it will be you standing on the earth , strongly, with tears in eyes, smiling and knowing the people who used to support you , clap for you it's just not there anymore but eco and memories in your head haunting you. Telling you they were just there to built you strong , teach you how to walk alone without feeling alone on earth because you know uf they were there for you they would still dance around you, they would cheer you up, they would make you laugh. And your enemies you left them far behind you, that you can't hear any scream from them.
In the end let it be you and yourself, don't let today's happiness makes you arrogant and don't let today's enemies makes you give up on your dreams and goals. Life is not just being a part of other people's chapter , life is about the book whose main character is you, all the others are side characters.

- Rakhshanda Saeed